Delicious masturbation techniques for women
Every woman deserves the experience of a mind-blowing orgasm. And not just a lucky hit, but a guaranteed way to pamper yourself to the fullest. Yet, for many women, this is not a given. Therefore, here are five techniques to increase the chances of an orgasm. Discover what works best for you.
1. Solo foreplay
An orgasm starts with good arousal. Therefore, pamper yourself first by stroking your entire body. From your breasts to your thighs, your nipples, and your neck. Try to maintain this for at least ten minutes before moving to your clitoris. This way, you build up a nice tension.
2. Making shapes
For some, circles work better, while others prefer squares. In the book ‘Are You Coming Too’ by Laura Hiddinga, you will find several masturbation techniques, such as these:
Tip one: Place your index and middle fingers on the left and right sides of your inner labia. If you squeeze now, you should feel your clitoris. Then move your fingers in circles, from top to bottom or from left to right.
Tip two: Not a fan of circles? Make an up-and-down motion from your urethra to your clitoris. Find out if you prefer to apply more pressure on the way there or back.
3. The come-here motion
One of the most beloved masturbation techniques is the come-here method. Start by stimulating your clitoris. This stimulates blood flow to your vagina and clitoris and causes your G-spot to swell. Insert two fingers about three to five centimeters into your vagina and look for a ‘sponge-like’ spot. Once you find it, make the come-here motion with your fingers and apply pressure to that spot. Building rhythm and speed is key. Due to the swelling, you may feel pressure on your bladder and feel like you need to pee, but you can ignore this. When you relax your pelvic floor muscles and fully surrender, you may even start squirting.
4. Edge cycling
If you have a bit more confidence that the orgasm will come, you can start edge cycling. This means delaying your orgasm for as long as possible. So when you feel a climax approaching, take a few seconds of rest and then continue. Delaying your orgasm ultimately leads to a bigger explosion of tingles. And who wouldn't want that?
5: Different position
Do you always masturbate on your back on your bed? Time to try something new. A change of diet makes you eat, right? Try masturbating while lying on your stomach, resting on your knees, or hanging your head off the edge of the bed/couch. This way, masturbation becomes not only more fun but also more pleasurable.
