Everything you want to know for your first anal sex experience

Some women find it fantastic, others shudder at the thought. Are you (secretly) curious about anal sex and want to know a bit more before you start? Lottelust gives you all the inside information, do's and don'ts, and important tips you want to know before you begin anal sex.

The prejudices
Let's start by helping out a few things from the world. No, it doesn't have to hurt (as long as you do it the right way), no, it's not just porn actresses who do it, and no, your anus doesn't stretch out when you engage in anal sex. Do you have any more doubts? Read here all misconceptions about anal sex.

Completely zen
When you're going to try anal sex, it's super important that you are completely relaxed. Only when you relax all your muscles will the opening allow something. Do it only with someone you fully trust. Additionally, the more aroused you are, the less painful and more pleasurable it will be. When you are fully aroused, it is also much easier to relax.

The right position
When you think of anal sex, you might immediately think of doggy style. But this is quite an advanced anal position that is not recommended for your first time. Rather, try it first in missionary position or go for intimate spooning where there is no chance of your partner going too deep. Everything about positions in anal sex you can find here. 

Anal orgasm
Your first thought when you think of anal sex might be: what do I get out of it? But did you know that women can orgasm through anal penetration? Well, sort of. The nerve endings of the clitoris extend all the way to the anus. When you are aroused, they are stimulated by anal penetration. Read here exactly how this works. The chances of you orgasming are greater when you also apply other stimulation, for example by fingering yourself at the same time. This also makes it easier to stay relaxed. It is only for a small group of women to orgasm with just anal penetration, but the intensity of the orgasm can be increased.