Have you ever experienced this during an orgasm?

So in 2020 there is — and it's about time — less and less taboo when it comes to sex. People are talking about it more openly, in my group of friends everything is discussed in detail and tips and tricks are exchanged back and forth. There is just one little thing that remains unspoken and about which there are many uncertainties. Facts, fables, you name it. Yes, today we are going to talk about squirting.

Because if we are to believe all the porn sites, squirting is really the most epic thing that can happen in bed and the ultimate reward for the partner because they see that they are doing a great job. Hmm, yes, as you might expect from porn films: that's quite exaggerated. Let's lay out the hard facts.

Let's start with the essence of squirting. Some people find it quite disgusting, because isn't it just urine, such a female ejaculation? And the revealing word is... Yes. Squirting is therefore genuinely nothing other than female urine. Nice, right? And they of course researched this in the lab, where women with a full bladder were tested on their squirt behavior. And what turned out: afterwards, an empty bladder was observed. Well, that seems to me a watertight (ha ha, funny joke) conclusion then.

And how does it happen that you squirt? According to experts, this occurs when your A-spot is stimulated. It is deeper than the G-spot, about a finger length inside your vagina, towards your navel. So you can definitely experiment with that.

Lastly: is it normal? Yes, completely. Some find it a bit more pleasant than others, but you don't have to be ashamed of anything. It can just happen, and for some women it happens a bit easier than for others. For some women, it doesn't happen at all, and that is also normal. The only thing that is not normal is how exaggerated it is portrayed in all those porn videos about squirting women. Because that's not how it really goes.