How to stimulate the male G-spot

He's coming, he's coming! And how! Step outside your sexual comfort zone and go somewhere this weekend that you've never been before... The male G-spot. Also known as the P-spot. Yep, the P for prostate.

You might already sense it coming. We – LotteLust – are going to tell you how to give your male partner a prostate massage. The massage gives him an incredibly nice feeling and can ultimately lead to a more intense orgasm. You can do it on its own as erotic massage or as an extra during a handjob or blowjob, but how do you do that exactly?

First an important tip: sexual boundaries are important. Discuss with the man in question whether you can explore his VIP prostate zone.

Male G-spot
The prostate gland is also known as the male G-spot. This spot is very sensitive for men and can lead to a powerful orgasm. Where is this gland actually located? The prostate gland is about two centimeters deep in the anus, at the front. The prostate produces fluid that, together with the sperm cells, forms semen. Due to the intense orgasm he experiences, bacterial substances are flushed out. So it's also very healthy for him. A massage with a happy and healthy ending.

Put him at ease
It is very important to make him comfortable. He probably hasn't had anyone so close to his anus before. Make sure you focus solely on him and treat him with respect. So no grimacing or being rough. This way he will quickly feel at ease and find it less awkward to be stimulated in this area.

How does such a massage work?
First, make sure you have clean hands and that your nails are trimmed. This prevents too many bacteria from coming into play and hurting him. Start by gently massaging the perineum. That's the area between the penis and the anus. Use some lubricant to make it smoother. Massage this area slowly and occasionally move your fingers over his anus. If he gives you the go-ahead, you can slowly insert your finger. It doesn't have to go in very far, as the prostate is only two centimeters from the entrance. You will feel a sort of walnut-shaped bump, which you can now start to stimulate. You can make circular motions and gently apply some pressure. Be sure to ask him to indicate what he likes. Good fuck... Eh, luck.