Your guide to multiple orgasms
Maybe you don't know it yet, but you want this. The many reasons why you want to have a multiple orgasm are explained to you by LotteLust. here She explains it in detail. It's exciting and relaxing at the same time and wonderful to completely let go of control. But how do you achieve that?
Know your body
If you've never reached an orgasm (which happens more often than you think) or if you're still struggling with it, then that will naturally be your first goal. It doesn't apply to everyone, but often it helps to first explore on your own – without a partner. Sit in front of a mirror or grab your hand mirror and go on a discovery journey, with your fingers or with one of the many toys that are specially made for you. If necessary, a showerhead, an (electric) toothbrush, and even the armrest of the couch can provide a solution. Need inspiration? Read here the best ways to masturbate.
The next level
If you happen to be one of the lucky ones who generally have no problem reaching orgasm, then achieving a multiple orgasm is a fun next experiment. When aiming for a second (and third and fourth) orgasm, it's important to take your time. Don't go straight for your clit again, but let it rest for about ten minutes. Additionally, repetition can be detrimental. Don't do exactly the same as with your first orgasm, but switch it up. If you're with a partner, clearly indicate what they can do to arouse you again. A complete five-step plan for a multiple orgasm can be found here.
Don't give up too quickly
Have you tried it before but didn't succeed? Don't get discouraged. It works differently for everyone and it often takes some practice and time to find what works for you. Moreover, you might be in the mood one time more than another. What can help to overcome that so-called threshold is to try it yourself first. This way, you won't feel awkward and might be more willing to take your time. Once you've had that experience, you can also give a potential partner easier instructions to experience it together.
