Ideas for a kinky date
Whether you're in the middle of a prela or have been hibernating for years, trying new things keeps your sex life alive. Discovering new sex toys, positions, or locations is one way. Additionally, you can go on exciting dates. LotteLust gives you inspiration for five spicy dates.
Strangers for an evening
You must try roleplay at least once in your life. It doesn't have to be slave and master à la Fifty Shades; you can choose a beginner's roleplay: love between strangers. Arrange to meet each other in a café or pub while pretending you don't know each other. The art is to flirt with each other, just like in the old days. Also check out these 5 exciting roleplays.
Attend an erotic party
The idea of ‘sex parties’ is that it's a big orgy where women walk around in latex outfits from head to toe and men waddle behind them on a dog leash wearing leather masks. If you've seen that one episode of Sex/Life, you know better by now. Nothing could be further from the truth. The most exciting parties are aimed at open-minded couples and single women who want to experience something new. Often, the parties are held in a chic location, and respect and personal space are a must. How it really goes down at a high-class erotic party you can read here.
Movie time
For many people, this is quite out of their comfort zone, and that's actually the point. Outside your comfort zone is where the magic happens, as they say. Grab the camera, or just your phone, and put on a little show. Film yourself and your bed partner in an exciting setting during the act. Guaranteed to add extra tension, and it's also fun to look back on. Just make sure your home video doesn't end up in the wrong hands. Quickly check the do's and don'ts for making your own sextape.
Go (into the) wild
Sex outdoors is a great way to have an exciting evening. The feeling that you're doing something forbidden plus the fact that you could get caught makes the nerves race through your body. In December, a romp on the beach is not a smart idea, but there are plenty of options for a romance outdoors. Park the car somewhere, turn on the heater, and let the windows fog up à la Titanic. Or choose indoors and go for a quickie in a fitting room or toilet of a café.
