5 tips for even hotter foreplay

Foreplay is seen by many as optional. The ‘appetizer’ before you start the main course. The main course in this case is penetrative sex. But sex is so much better when you take advantage of all the options on the menu, and that's why LotteLust gives you tips on how to make foreplay the main act.

1. (Tong)kissing!
Let’s be honest: kissing is one of the most enjoyable things to do during foreplay, especially when done with dedication and passion. Most couples kiss for a moment before they start a sexual encounter, but a lengthy tongue session is often not the case. It often gets rushed because we are so excited that we want to move on to the next thing immediately. A long (tongue) kiss is an important part of exciting foreplay. Start with slow kissing. Gently twirl your tongues around each other, suck on his lower lip, or teasingly lick along his mouth with your tongue.

2. Massage
A massage, again something we don't do often enough. It doesn't even have to be sexual, but it can be of course *wink wink*. A full body massage is the ideal way to stoke the fire. Treat your love to a nice intense massage. Whether you have the skills or not, no worries, it's about the act itself. Not only do you do him a favor here, think about how exciting it is for you to rub that delicious body of your partner. Or vice versa: when he pampers your body from head to toe with his hands. And again: take it slow.

If you are really terrible at massaging, there are handy tutorials for beginners available online.

3. Sexting
Who ever said that foreplay can only take place in the bedroom? Not at all! Foreplay can start hours in advance, even when you are not together. Send your lover a naughty message during the day. Something along the lines of: ‘Tonight I'm going to drive you crazy.’ You can read all the do’s and don’ts in the sexting dossier from LotteLust.

4. Tickling
You can gently tickle each other using your hands, but if you want to try something new, use a tickle feather. This creates a tingling sensation and makes your partner's skin super sensitive (or theirs on you). If you want to take it a step further, experiment with spanking.

5. Lapdance
Give your lover's eyes a good show and showcase your sexiest dance moves. Put on your prettiest lingerie or just buy a new one and seduce with some sensual hip movements. Need inspiration? Read here how to drive him or her wild with desire with a challenging lapdance.