These 9 things a man really pays attention to during the first date

God, those nerves for that first date. Out of fright, you pour yourself a glass of wine at home. But yeah, that doesn't help either. You'll still have to show up and talk and laugh and be fun.

Terrible. The world of dating isn't that cozy yet. It's, let's say, especially very awkward at the beginning. It gets better, really. Before you know it, you're chatting for hours, forgetting all about time, kissing outside by your bike, and you're on fire. If it's a success, that is. And you will always achieve that success from now on, because we know what men really pay attention to during a first date. Are you the most attractive in the bar? Yes, sure. It's very simple.

1. Your conversation topics: do you have something interesting to share or are you just a bit boring? Ultimately, it's about this. Having that click. Having something to talk about.

2. Your smile: do you make it fun or not? Do you radiate? What is your vibe: positive or negative? Confident or insecure?

3. Your eyes: look each other in the eye. It works. If you like each other, this is always a winner.

4. Your interest: Do you show enough interest in getting to know him? Do you easily start the conversation, ask questions, listen attentively? More important than you think.

5. Your outfit: but especially the top part, because a man doesn't look much further than heels and shoes and that stuff.

6. Your scent: whoever smells like sweat usually doesn't have such a successful evening, let's say.

7. Your reactions to others: How do you treat the waiter? Someone you run into? It shows whether you are a social and nice person.

8. Your phone: are you looking at it too much or can you put that thing away for a bit? It's up to you.

9. Your sex appeal: Of course, you can show whatever you want to show and hide whatever you want to hide, but if you want to seduce him, you can throw all your moves into the mix. How do you flirt? Well, he pays attention to that.

Well, hop, swipe left and plan that evening. Nerves are no longer needed from now on. Soon you'll be a lovely silly couple that sits on the couch watching their own series, just wait and see.