Why do you argue with your loved one specifically on the weekend?

Statements claiming that they never argue I absolutely do not believe that. That just can't be true, can it? I personally have never had such a relationship, but I also admit that I am quite a troublemaker and on top of that, I am attracted to troublemakers. Guaranteed fights then.

Well, I now notice that my partner and I mainly have conflicts during the weekend. While during the week we mostly engage in innocent bickering, the weekend gives way to serious arguments. Well, you would think that those two days are meant for relaxation and doing romantic things together, but nothing could be further from the truth. Do you also experience this?

If so, then fortunately there is no reason to panic. According to experts, it is actually very logical that you argue with your partner specifically on the weekend. How is that? It has everything to do with the weekday rhythm that disappears on the weekend. During the week, you and your partner are busy with work, sports, and other obligations. Naturally, you both look forward to the weekend, but why does the bomb burst as soon as these days finally arrive?

According to relationship experts Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman, this happens because you both want to fill the weekend in different ways. While you envision a romantic Friday night, your partner might prefer to go to the pub that evening and spend Saturday night with you. And that while you had planned to spend Saturday with friends. Or take Sunday morning: your partner wants to have a leisurely breakfast together, but you would rather attend a sports class at eleven o'clock. In other words: your different expectations lead to disappointments and ultimately to arguments. Actually quite logical.

How can this problem be solved? Fortunately, it is much easier than you think: just go over what you want to do together for the upcoming weekend right before the weekend. Is there something you want to do together? Plan that in advance. Do you have an evening with friends? Then warn your partner in advance and let them know that they don't have to count on you that evening. In other words: be considerate of each other and make compromises. So, schedule a mini-meeting with your partner every Thursday evening; success guaranteed!

source: tipsandtricks