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Sexy New Year's resolutions

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You can't have missed it: 2023 is coming to an end. If you ask us, every year seems to go by faster. Every year we get older and wiser, but what we want to avoid is becoming boring. That's why LotteLust has made a list of good resolutions to ensure that your love life doesn't fizzle out.

For people in a relationship:

1. Date nights: make sure to keep making time for each other. For example, plan a fixed day each month or week on which you take turns planning a date. This way, you show each other that you continue to make an effort to keep the relationship exciting and romantic.

2. Looking for firsts: there are couples who gave each other their first kiss a hundred years ago and have since been able to discover everything together. However, this is not the case for most couples. It is very fun, exciting, and valuable to do something together for the first time. Try to figure out what you both have never done but would like to try. Think of a visit to a swingers club, sex in a place where you could get caught, or using a butt plug.

3. Share your fantasies: even if you've been together for a long time, reading minds is difficult. Make it a point to tell your partner what you want and what you fantasize about. If you find it exciting to talk about your own fantasies, try to bring it up in another way. For example, let your partner read a Sexy Story from LotteLust and tell what you find sexy about it.

4. Orgasm goal: reaching orgasm has various benefits. A good orgasm reduces stress and ensures that you sleep well. Together, set a weekly or monthly orgasm goal. It doesn't hurt to let each other or yourself reach orgasm often.

For singles:

1. A gift to yourself: treat yourself to a new toy and aim to take it out of the box at least once a week.

2. Out of your comfort zone: Most couples have a fixed routine in the bedroom, but we often masturbate in the same way too. Nothing wrong with that because it's effectively pleasurable, but it can also be a bit boring. Set a goal for yourself to try a different position or toy during your solo session each month.

3. Me, myself and I: take the time to care for yourself, both physically and mentally. Self-love is attractive and forms a good basis for healthy relationships. Make sure you get enough sleep, exercise, and eat healthily. Your sex drive will also get a boost from a healthy lifestyle. Read here why singles are often healthier than people in a relationship.

4. Open heart, open mind: be open to meeting different people and try not to hold on too tightly to a specific type of person. Sometimes surprising love can come from unexpected corners.

Of course, you don't have to take our list one-to-one, but it can be very fun and exciting to come up with a few naughty good resolutions for yourself. Hopefully, we've given you some good inspiration and you'll make it a sexy party next year!