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Tips for a long distance relationship

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A long-distance relationship can be challenging. If one of the partners goes abroad to study or intern for a certain period, it is understandable that you will miss each other. With the right communication and planning, it is possible to maintain and even strengthen the bond between you. LotteLust gives you tips to make a long-distance relationship a success.

1. Communication is key
We are lucky that we have all sorts of gadgets and possibilities to keep in touch, even if someone is on the other side of the world. With time differences, it is not always obvious that you can reach each other, so make agreements about when you will call each other. It is also important to discuss how much you need those calls. If one assumes that you will speak every day and the other is fine with just one call a week, that can lead to frustrations. Read here how you can use social media to strengthen your relationship.

2. Visit each other!
Sometimes it just doesn't fit into your schedule or budget to visit. Especially if your partner is on the other side of the world, it can be a challenge to come for a visit. If you do have the opportunity to visit, we definitely recommend it. It's nice to have something to look forward to together, and it's very valuable to get a glimpse into the life your partner is living there.

3. Revisit your ‘rules’
If you are apart for a long period and have a monogamous relationship, it also means that you will not have sex for a longer period. Discuss this with each other and consider making the relationship (partially) open for this period.

5. Celebrate the small moments
Whether you are close to each other or not, it is important to take a moment to acknowledge fun and important events. Toast with each other on FaceTime or send a card for birthdays, anniversaries, or when you have achieved a good grade.

6. Open communication about future plans
Have regular conversations about your future plans, both short-term and long-term. Having a clear picture of where you are going can help bridge this period apart.

7. Encourage growth:
The time abroad is likely important for a study or a significant step in your career. It is not easy to miss each other for a long time, but it shows that you have a strong relationship if you can get through this period well. It is commendable if you support each other in achieving goals and encourage each other to work on yourselves. Read here for more tips for keeping a long-distance relationship exciting.

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