Women speak out: ‘This makes a man bad in bed’

Sex is often done with two (or more, of course), so I always find it a bit silly when people say that ‘someone was really bad in bed.’ That may be true, but it could also just be that you don't have a connection with someone, that you are on different sexual wavelengths. Although, if we are to believe Reddit, there are a few things that are an instant turn-off for women in bed. The question was asked: ‘Women of Reddit: what thing(s) constitute a man being ‘bad in bed’?’ A few things came up very often. Recognizable?

1. ‘Hygiene (wash your butt and your genitals, trim your nails, brush your teeth, and wear deodorant).’

2. ‘Communication. Listen to what she has to say and accept feedback.’

3. ‘Make it last longer by doing a lot of foreplay and kissing a lot.’

4. ‘Be open to trying new things.’

5. ‘Stop whining, don't be lazy, and change positions.’

6. ‘Don't be selfish and do something in return.’

7. ‘At least make an effort to make her orgasm.’

8. ‘Learn to kiss well and take it slow when fingering her.’

9. ‘Don't be a robot. Make sounds if you enjoy it.’

10. ‘Stop imitating porn movies.’