The 10 questions you should ask according to experts before having sex with someone

A simple one night stand doesn't go without a hitch, if I may believe the psychologists. They have quite a long list, ten questions long, that you should go through for every hook up. Now, I'm not a psychologist, but these questions seem very intense if you plan to spend just one night together. Especially if alcohol is involved and you end up in bed together in the middle of the night.

But well, psychologists swear by this; you get to know each other and each other's boundaries better and find out what the other enjoys. This way, you are more assured of a pleasant sexual experience for both and feel valued and respected.

A nice goal, so definitely worth trying. Are you diving into bed with someone new? Then first ask these ten questions.

1. I like you and think of you in a sexual way. Do you feel the same and what does that look like for you?
2. What is your favorite part of your body and why?
3. Have you discovered something that you find very pleasurable sexually? If so, what is it and how did you discover it?
4. Is there something that you absolutely do not enjoy sexually? If so, what is it and how did you discover it?
5. What kind of sexual things do you enjoy doing, and what things would you still like to try?
6. What do you say or do when you don't enjoy something? I would like to know what to pay attention to.
7. Sometimes one of the two needs a break from sex. What would be good for you to do that?
8. I promise that I will never force you into something you don't want sexually. Do you promise that too, and how can we ensure that we don't break that promise?
9. Have you ever had bad experiences with sex? Is there something that triggers you because of that and that I should avoid?
10. What words do you not like to use during sex?

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