Love & Sex

This is how you have skilled and enjoyable sex at a festival

By Livia ter Borgh | #!31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:005131#31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:00-7Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam202431 13pm31pm-31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:007Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam2024312024Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200007007pmSaturday=9#!31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:00Europe/Amsterdam7#07-13-2024#!31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:005131#/31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:00-7Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam202431#!31Sat, 13 Jul 2024 19:00:51 +0200+02:00Europe/Amsterdam7#

Such a nice party in the summer sun, an ideal place for an intimate encounter? Yes, really. You can definitely feel like having sex at a festival, and if you both want to: go for it. But sex at a festival requires some preparation and awareness to make it both enjoyable and safe.

So this is how you know how to do it. It also saves you some discomfort.

1. Choose the right spot
Finding a secluded spot is crucial. Look for a quiet part of the grounds, like the back of the campsite, a bush, or a deserted corner. This ensures that you feel comfortable and unseen. Avoid busy areas and places where people can easily catch you. This is not only uncomfortable but can also lead to problems with festival security.

2. Use contraceptives
Safety first: condoms are a must. They not only protect against unwanted pregnancies but also against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Bring enough condoms and store them in a cool, dry place. Make sure they don't get damaged by heat or friction in your bag, for example. Keep them well in their packaging.

3. Hygiene is important
Wash your hands and, if possible, your intimate areas before and after sex. Use wet wipes or disinfecting wipes to clean yourself. Keep toilet paper and hand sanitizer handy for a quick clean-up if needed.

4. Comfortable positions
Know your surroundings. Since festivals often do not provide ideal conditions for sex, choose positions that work with the available space. Missionary, spooning, or sitting can be more comfortable than more adventurous positions. Lay a blanket or jacket on the ground to create a soft surface and protect yourself from dirt and sharp objects.

5. Communication and consent
Make sure both parties fully agree on what is going to happen. Clear communication is essential to ensure everyone feels comfortable. Festivals can be intense. Make sure your partner is sober enough to make informed decisions.

6. Respect for others
Festivals are loud, but try to remain discreet. Too much noise can attract unwanted attention. Be respectful to the people on the festival grounds and your fellow visitors. Do not leave trash or used contraceptives behind and don't shout it out in those bushes. This way, it all remains a bit charming.

Having sex at a festival can be an exciting and unforgettable experience. Discretion, hygiene, safety, and mutual consent are the keys to a pleasurable and carefree intimate encounter. With these tips, you are ready to enjoy all the adventures a festival has to offer in a skilled and fun way.

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