Masturbating together can be learned: 5 sexy tips

Let's think out of the box for a moment. After all, masturbation does not have to be solo sex at all, and jerking off and fingering together does not always have to end in penetration. Masturbating can be much more exciting than just being deployed as a quick fix to soothe sexual tension. Masturbating together can be very sexy. And the nice thing about it is: you are sure you are doing it right because you are in control. But playing with yourself in front of your lover can really be more interesting than looking at each other while sitting across from each other.

Five tips for a new exciting twist

Tasty in front of the mirror
One of you sits comfortably in front of the mirror and starts playing with himself. The other watches obliquely from behind. This gives a voyeuristic feeling, as it looks like you are secretly peeping in on someone. You can also end up joining in nicely...

An element of competition
Whoever stops touching themselves first has to perform a task given by the other person. This may be something they have to do to the other person, or it may be a task to be done to themselves while the other person watches.

Giving instructions to each other
Make it a sort of scavenger hunt: describe post-its with instructions for your lover, and stick them over his or her body. All instructions must be carried out, but you decide the order for the other person. Conversely, of course, your lover does the same for you....

The famous remote-controlled vibrator
It is one of the sexiest gifts for under the Christmas tree: the remote-controlled vibrator is a naughty piece of foreplay that you can start sneaking outside the door. As soon as you get home you tear the clothes off each other's bodies, and while the one experiencing the vibrations is being teased remotely, the remote control boss is playing nicely with himself while watching.

Phone sex without distance
Super sexy when you are not near each other, phone sex is still. nowadays, it even happens via facetime or videos are sent that can only be watched once. But what is just as fun: playing with yourself while you are in the same room, telling each other in the meantime what you would like to do with the other person... No cheating! You do have to bring yourself to that climax, otherwise it won't count, of course.