These are the 12 most frequently asked questions to a sexologist
What if it doesn't work in the bedroom? What if you love each other a lot, but are no longer intimate in that way? Just: no sex? Or what if the penis doesn't want to rise? Or what do you do if you, as a woman, experience pain during penetration? There are plenty of questions you can ask a sexologist: a psychologist, but in the field of intimacy.
What are the most frequently asked questions to the sexologist?
Well, these 12 examples often occur in the privacy of the consultation room. It will cost you 150 euros per hour to ask them, but that's fine.
1. How often is it normal to have sex?
Many people are curious if their sexual frequency is ‘normal’. And so this is often the first thing men and women ask while sitting on that couch with the expert. The truth is that there is no universal norm, and it varies greatly per person and relationship. What is important is that both partners are satisfied with how often they have sex.
2. How can I increase my libido?
Questions about a low libido are very common. Because: not having sex is indeed the biggest problem discussed by sexologists. Factors such as stress, hormonal changes, medication, and relationship problems can all influence libido. Sexologists can help identify the cause and find solutions. Start again with some exciting play instead of immediately having to penetrate and reach that climax. Make it fun again.
3. How do I deal with differences in sexual desire?
Many couples deal with different libidos. What if you want it more often? What if you hardly ever feel like it and your lover is up for a romp every night? Talk about it.
4. Why does sex hurt for me?
Pain during sex, also known as dyspareunia, can have various causes, including physical conditions, infections, or psychological factors. A sexologist can help identify the cause and find treatments or techniques to make it more enjoyable and fun again.
5. How can I improve my sexual performance?
Concerns about sexual performance are often a source of stress. This can relate to erection problems, premature ejaculation, or reaching orgasm. Insecurity in optimal form. Sexologists can offer techniques and therapies to address these issues.
6. What is the best time to educate my children about sex?
Parents often have questions about sexual education. Sexologists can provide advice on age-appropriate education and how to have open and healthy conversations about sexuality with children. How do you explain that a genital is private? What if your child likes to ‘touch it’ in public?
7. Is my sexual fantasy normal?
Many people secretly worry about their sexual fantasies and whether they are ‘normal’. Sexologists can help understand that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of human sexuality, as long as they are consensual and not harmful. But of course, they do hear some strange stories.
8. How can I get a better emotional connection with my partner?
Emotional intimacy is an important part of a healthy sexual relationship. Sexologists can offer techniques and exercises to strengthen the emotional bond between partners.
9. What can I do if I never reach orgasm?
Both men and women ask this. Problems with reaching orgasm can be frustrating. This can be caused by both physical and psychological factors. Sexologists can help explore these factors and find ways to increase pleasure and satisfaction.
10. How can I recover from sexual trauma?
People who have experienced sexual trauma such as boundary violations often need help processing and recovering from it. Sexologists are trained to deal with trauma and can provide support and therapeutic techniques to promote healing.
11. Is it normal to have no desire for sex after the birth of a child?
Changes in sexual desire after the birth of a child are very normal. Factors such as fatigue, hormonal changes, and adjusting to parenthood play a role. Sexologists can provide guidance in navigating these changes.
12. How can I improve my sexual relationship after being together for a long time?
Couples who have been together for a long time often look for ways to keep their sexual relationship exciting and satisfying. Sexologists can offer tips and techniques to breathe new life into intimacy and passion.
