One in ten people has this sexual fantasy

You would think that over the years there would be a bit more freedom regarding sexual fantasies and the various preferences that exist. By breaking the taboo surrounding sex, many couples dare to be more open with each other about the desires they have between the sheets. Nowadays, more couples use toys together with their partner, the conversation about open relationships and sexual freedom in relationships has become normalized, and there is no longer such a fuss about couples who enjoy experimenting with one or two extra people in their bed.

Strangely enough, there is still one desire that is not always discussed. Among heterosexuals, it is apparently still a ‘fetish’ when talking about anal sex, while it could actually be very normal if the stigma around it were reduced. Research has shown that 59% of the Dutch have experimented with anal sex, but admitting it still seems difficult. However, 11% dares to openly discuss it here. And this is while the anus is one of the most sensitive spots on our body. This is due to the number of nerves that run around that area. That is also the reason why it can be incredibly pleasurable, but it will not be as easy at first as vaginal sex. When you try anal sex for the first time, it is also a kind of deflowering. Being well relaxed and the right preparation is also important to make it as enjoyable as possible for everyone. It can be a nice change from the normal routine.

The main reasons to experiment with anal sex are the desire to experiment with sex in general, but also hearing positive stories from others. So why not share it with others, if apparently so many people have the desire to try new things? Talking about sex is important anyway. It doesn't have to be only within a relationship, but also with friends. It is not only good to normalize the different forms of sex, it can also simply lead to an interesting evening by hearing what secret fantasies actually occur within the friend group!

Source: EasyToys