Love & Sex

Eighty without real sex is completely the trend of now

By Livia ter Borgh | #!31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:000531#31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:00-6Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam202431 18pm31pm-31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:006Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam2024312024Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +02000060010pmFriday=9#!31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:00Europe/Amsterdam10#10-18-2024#!31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:000531#/31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:00-6Europe/Amsterdam3131Europe/Amsterdam202431#!31Fri, 18 Oct 2024 18:00:05 +0200+02:00Europe/Amsterdam10#

Eighty without real sex: yes, that exists. It's even becoming quite trendy. So what you definitely don't do? No penetration, that is. Everything is allowed, except that.

And that makes the whole game so exciting.

Well, it has an official name: dipping. It means that you fidget a lot and kiss and lick, but don't go further with real sex. You hold back. Until you both really can't anymore, so to speak. But the game is mainly in the teasing. You tease the other by just being allowed to go in a little bit with the penis. But not too far, not too deep. That's what makes it extra exciting, as if it's all forbidden to do more, while you both are of course very horny and want more.

Take your time for it: that's important with this new form of sex. Because you have to come up with many other ways to still enjoy being with each other. Lie on top of each other, rub back and forth, kiss, give each other your full attention. It's totally different from a quickie, where you dive right in and have the penis in fully. You play and tease and you can tease until you fall over. And literally almost come. And only then, then... Then, hop. It’s allowed. And believe us: that delivers an orgasm that you will remember for a long time.