The 3 sentences by which you can recognize a narcissist

Being in a relationship with a narcissist is exhausting, and often it creeps in. You may not have noticed the narcissistic traits at first, but after a while, you no longer know how you ended up in this relationship — your relationship certainly doesn't feel as fun and nice as it did at the beginning.

That's why it's always good to pay attention to certain actions and statements. Your partner doesn't have to be a narcissist to exhibit certain traits, and that alone can be enough reason to take a critical look at your relationship. Psychologists particularly warn about the three statements below. If your partner is guilty of these, you might want to consider whether you want to stay in this relationship.

1. ‘I'm sorry you feel that way.’
Run away, because this is absolutely not an excuse or apology. Instead of understanding your feelings, your partner labels it as ‘your feeling’ that is incomprehensible. A big red flag. A green flag is when your partner indicates they don't understand, but want to talk about it because they do want to understand what you're going through.

2. ‘You have anger issues.’
When you get frustrated because your partner doesn't want to listen or can't look at their own part in something, it's quite logical that you eventually get angry. When you feel that you are completely justified in your anger and sadness, you should never accept this. In fact, this is a big red flag that you are not with the right partner.

3. ‘You messed it up.’
If this is a statement from your partner when you want to address something that you feel is not going well, then it's time to take a good look at your relationship. Psychologists warn that when someone so clearly wants to shift the blame onto another, there is no room left for a solution-oriented conversation. Your partner gives you the impression that you are the one who has hurt them and that you can no longer approach them to discuss your feelings.

Source: LADBible