Love & Sex

There is a new dating trend: the GRB

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Maybe you've heard of it, but there's a good chance you're wondering: what is a GRB?! GRB stands for Golden Retriever Boyfriend. A Golden Retriever Boyfriend is, as the name suggests, a sweet, loyal partner. Of course, this doesn't only apply to men, so for convenience, we simply rename it to a Golden Retriever Lover. Why are Golden Retrievers such a hot topic in the dating world? Mainly because of Taylor Swift's relationship with Travis Kelce.

After Taylor and Joe Alwyn broke up, it became clear that he had been quite a difficult guy during their relationship. It's no coincidence that Taylor has written entire albums about that complicated history. The contrast with the always cheerful Travis Kelce, who follows Taylor around the world and greets her with his big warm hugs, couldn't be greater. He quickly earned the GRB label.

Of course, a bad boy is super exciting, and there are certain things you just have to experience in life, despite the fact that probably everyone around you can see that the relationship won't last. But there comes a moment when almost everyone needs stability and peace. That's the moment when you want to settle down with a Golden Retriever Boyfriend.

These are the main characteristics of such a Golden Retriever lover:

Stay true
If you want a monogamous relationship, it's important to remain faithful to each other, of course. But being faithful also means being emotionally loyal to each other, where there is no negative gossip behind each other's backs. A GR Lover sees you as the most fantastic creature on earth, so they would never even think of doing that.

Safety and stability
In a relationship, you want to be able to be 100 percent yourself, with angry moods and all. There should be room for conflict, without it immediately turning into a big drama and throwing plates as if it's a Greek party. Safety also means knowing that someone won't just walk away from the relationship, that someone can maintain calm and not immediately conclude that this means the end.

Honesty
Sometimes honesty can be hard to take, but it's really nice to know for sure that your lover has your best interests at heart and isn't stringing you along with sweet words. In the end, everyone benefits from the truth. Your relationship only grows from it.

Cheerleader
It might sound a bit strange to call someone a cheerleader, but what it means is that your Golden Retriever Lover can be enthusiastic for you when you achieve certain things. For example, when you proudly share that you've achieved a specific goal at work, it feels extra festive when someone celebrates that with you, right? Of course, cheering also means encouraging during tough times; a cheerleader is always 100 percent behind you.

In short, what is so great about having a Golden Retriever Lover? They got your back! Isn't that the best feeling there is?