This is the disk of 5 in the dating field
You may like it or not, but dating is always interesting. I've always hated that awkwardness of a first date. The idea has always been in my head about what the purpose of a first date actually is: ‘we're going to see if we could fall in love with each other.’ Horrible! But there are also people who find the unknown so exciting that they love to date. The essence is always the same: you have to get to know each other. There are so many different types of people that it's impossible to put everyone in boxes. That simply can't be done; everyone is unique. But still, there is a kind of ‘food pyramid’ in the dating field that can help you distinguish the perfect love for yourself from the rest. Here's how it works.
Falling in love happens because someone has qualities that you find attractive. It's not just about looks, as that could easily be confused with lust. It's mainly about character traits. No one is going to fit the perfect picture that you might have in your head. The more demands you have, the smaller the chance that you are open to real love. The best thing is to stick to the ‘food pyramid.’ Just like that pyramid from the Nutrition Center, there are five parts of a circle in which different ‘products’ are categorized. When it comes to food, you might be talking about vegetables, fruits, and grains, but when you look at people, it's naturally a bit different. What does correspond is the idea that you pick a few ingredients from each part of the pyramid to find a fun, attractive, and pleasant lover for yourself.
The pieces of the dating pyramid are structured as follows:
- Cool/sporty/macho
- Intelligent/ambitious/talented/you can talk well with him
- Funny/understands your humor/you can laugh together
- Rich/buying a house and car/comes from a good family
- Beautiful/sexy/hot sex/produces attractive children
So you can't demand that someone possesses all the ingredients from one specific part of the pyramid; that's an unrealistic expectation. If someone has a few qualities from at least three parts of the pyramid, then it could very well be the perfect match. Personally, I find laughing together and being able to talk well very important; everything else is a bonus.
