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This sex position usually makes men the most nervous

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You want to spice things up a bit in the bedroom. So you try out a new position here and there. But which sex position makes men the most nervous?

Sex is pleasurable and sometimes brings a bit of uncertainty, and certain sexual positions can cause extra tension or nervousness in some people. Although men are often associated with confidence and initiative in the bedroom, there are specific positions that can make them particularly nervous. Usually, that is the… Reverse Cowgirl.

The Reverse Cowgirl is a position where the man lies on his back and the woman sits on top, facing his feet. This position gives the woman control over the movement and depth of penetration, while the man takes a relatively passive role. And secretly, they find that quite exciting, those men. They can't do much, mainly waiting to see how and what happens. And how fast it goes. In this position, the woman has full control over the speed, depth, and rhythm of the movements. For men who are used to taking the lead, this loss of control can be nerve-wracking.

And then there are the concerns about their penis. This position places the penis at an unusual angle, which can be uncomfortable and increase the fear of injury. Men may worry about maintaining an erection or experiencing pain during penetration. So always check how much he enjoys it. Try different variations of the Reverse Cowgirl to discover what is most comfortable for both partners. Small adjustments in angle or speed can make a big difference in comfort and pleasure. And hey, a dose of healthy nerves, there's nothing wrong with that. Remember that it's normal to be nervous, and the most important thing is to work together and support each other in exploring new sexual experiences. Together, seeing what feels best for both of you, that's a real highlight, right?