Fashion

Why it's better to be overdressed than underdressed

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It must have happened to everyone at least once: being massively overdressed or underdressed at a birthday, event, or work gathering. You can feel really uncomfortable because it's clear that you've misinterpreted the dress code a bit. But actually, that's not necessary at all. At least you've put on something you feel good in, so it shouldn't matter whether you meet others' expectations. On the other hand, a dress code is there for a reason, so adhering to it is quite polite. Are you in doubt? Then it's always better to be overdressed than underdressed. And that has everything to do with the following points.

An indelible first impression
When you're overdressed, you stand out immediately. People who don't know you often form an opinion about you within seconds. If you're overdressed, it's usually a positive opinion, as it shows that you take the occasion seriously and that you are well-groomed. When you're underdressed, it can come across as disinterested, or you might feel like you don't fit in with the rest of the group. This likely makes you feel less comfortable.

Less is always an option
If you're overdressed, you can usually easily adjust your look by taking off your jacket, removing some accessories, or adopting a more casual posture. If you're underdressed, you don't have that flexibility.

Boost for your self-confidence
Especially when you're overdressed, you shine just a bit more than the rest of the group. There's zero chance that anyone will think you don't look good. You radiate self-confidence and it can give you the feeling that you're in control. The uncomfortable feeling you get when you arrive in a hoodie while everyone else is in nice dresses or blouses won't do you any good.

However, there are also situations where being overdressed isn't very convenient

Being overdressed can be awkward if, for example, you arrive at a beach party in a ball gown. Or if you wear a nicer dress than the bride at a wedding. That's obviously not the intention. You need to use a bit of common sense to gauge what is best to wear for different occasions. And if there's a dress code on the invitation that you don't understand? Then Google is your best friend.