Why watching porn together is good for your relationship

Watching porn together is not something everyone casually suggests on the weekend, when you have a nice evening planned on the couch and have already finished Netflix. But precisely those ‘boring’ evenings could use a little ‘spicing up’. Of course, you don't want to jump straight into intense orgies; most people aren't necessarily turned on by that. Especially women tend to prefer more romantic sex. That's why watching porn (female-friendly porn) is a bit more suitable. There are different ‘flavors’ in that too, but without women being pushed to their knees with some ‘persuasion’.

Why would you want to watch sex films together? Shouldn't you keep those kinds of moments nicely separate, each with their own fantasy, and just maintain your own enjoyable sex routine when you're together? Well, precisely to break that fixed routine, it's quite exciting to set up a thrilling film together once in a while. It's a way to discover each other's secret fantasies and preferences. Maybe you'll find out that you've both wanted to experiment with a certain position, a role play, or perhaps a new romantic variation on the missionary position for a while now.

Endlessly searching for a suitable film makes it a lot less exciting, so maybe it's more fun to choose something yourself before you sit down together on the couch. This way, you can also suggest that the other person picks something next time. That way, you might feel a little less awkward about admitting what you like or find pleasurable for that first time. Sitting quietly next to each other and commenting on the film is, of course, not the intention. It's especially fun for building tension, to then let the film be the film and enjoy each other extensively, perhaps immediately with the help of the creative input from the film!