5 x faux pas in the bedroom

Dear readers. Of course, we write about men and sex. But there are people who know a bit more about it and write about it a bit more easily. That’s why we are rolling out the red carpet every week for our friends at LotteLust, a website that covers everything related to intimacy. Among other things, this week’s topic: faux pas in the bedroom. If you don’t enjoy doing it, at least it’s nice to talk about it. LotteLust, take it away.

Spare yourself the awkward conversations about what could be better in bed. LotteLust tells you what the most common ‘sex mistakes’ of women are.

Routine sex

Often you search for what feels best for you and him. Once found, you keep repeating this formula, because it works! But you can definitely learn some new tricks. This way, you keep it fun in bed. Predictable sex is not a turn on. So keep discovering each other! For example, read up on new moves. Maybe it’s finally time to make that secret fantasy of yours come true…

Showing little initiative

Nothing wrong with wanting to be seduced by your boyfriend or husband. But nothing is sexier than a woman who takes the lead in bed. That can be a bit scary. Don’t know how to approach it? Read our tips here.

“Teasing is pleasing, baby!”

Not being ‘in the moment’

I can’t and won’t speak for everyone, but many women worry about flaws between the sheets. Such a shame, because this way you can never fully enjoy. And believe us, he notices it too if you’re actually thinking about a weird mole on your butt, a pimple on your breast, or greasy hair. So let those thoughts go.

Faking

I can’t say it often enough: no one benefits if you fake. Literally. You make him believe he’s doing well. He will repeat these moves next time. Moreover, you’re shortchanging yourself too. You don’t have to lie there like a sack of potatoes until he gives up or tries something else on his own. Give him some slack. A woman doesn’t come with a user manual, and he can’t read minds either. Be honest and just tell him where your sweet spots are and whether he should go harder, softer, faster, or slower. With your most sultry Scarlett Johansson voice, of course.

No attention to his whole business

Satisfying a man, that can hardly go wrong, right? A little up and down and voilà. Nice and quick, but boring after a while. Take the time to kiss or touch him on other pleasure points as well. For example, his neck, butt, inner thighs, and yes, you can give his crown jewels a bit more attention too. Teasing is pleasing, baby!