8 signs that you have an unbreakable bond with your sister
A bond with your sister is something special. She was there before you even knew what friendship was, and that connection often runs deeper than with anyone else. Do you recognize these signs? Then you know: the bond with your sister is unbreakable.
1. You talk to each other every day
Not a day goes by without you sister at least talking to each other for a brief moment. How could it be any other way? In the past, you saw each other every day because you lived under the same roof, but now you come up with other ways to maintain that daily contact. Sometimes a simple text is enough to feel that connection. Or just: five minutes of FaceTiming about… nothing. But that’s what makes it beautiful.
2. You have the same interests and never run out of things to talk about
It’s quite handy, of course, when you talk every day: you never run out of things to say. My sister and I can chat for hours about the latest fashion trends, our jobs, our partners, and our creative endeavors. Add a bottle of wine, and we’re completely happy.
3. You ask each other for advice about everything
Everything, and I mean everything, is discussed with each other before a decision is made. From how short we cut our bangs to major life choices. It doesn’t even occur to me to make an important decision without first calling my sister. Really, if I ever get proposed to, I’ll call her first before I respond.
4. You know her wardrobe by heart
When you need to come up with an outfit, her wardrobe is also in your mind. Bonus points if you have the same size and style, because then you dive into each other’s closet at least once a week. Where we used to argue about borrowing clothes without asking, now it’s a party to lend that favorite sweater or that one designer bag.
5. You prefer to go on vacation together
My sister is the best travel partner I could wish for. We know each other inside out, know exactly when the other needs some space or is in the mood to go out. And because we had the same upbringing, we also share many vacation habits. That saves endless discussions – wonderful.
6. No one understands your humor, except for you two
I’ve stopped counting how many times my sister and I are doubled over laughing at something that nobody else understands. There’s no one I can laugh so hard with – really until no sound comes out. And when I get a text saying ‘only you understand this’, I already know: this is going to be gold.
7. You dare to ask each other anything
Everything that is discussed between you automatically falls into a no-judgment zone. Does your sister want to day drink on a Wednesday afternoon? She must have a reason for it. Does she need to take hundreds of photos for Instagram because the angle isn’t quite right? Fine, just hand over that phone. Has she been typing a message to her ex for hours? Let’s see it – from now on it’s our message. Nothing is too crazy when it comes to your sister.
8. You can tease each other without consequences
Your sister is the only one who can tease you about her quirky habits – because you have them too. We regularly crack up about the fact that we both complain about being overweight but never do anything about it. Or how we both nervously babble in awkward situations. Whatever it is: you can say anything to each other. But only to each other. If someone else says exactly the same thing? Then they’re not even close to being right.
Why is the bond with your sister so strong? (science says this)
That the bond with your sister is unique is also shown by research. Scientists from Brigham Young University discovered that a good relationship with your sister leads to less loneliness, less guilt, and more self-confidence – even as you get older. It also turns out that sisters often practice empathy, sharing, and caring simply because they have had that bond since childhood. In short: your sister is not only your best friend but also a mental support pillar (and secretly a free therapist).
10 things your sister can always say to you (and no one else)
- “Those pants really make your butt look huge.” (and you appreciate it too)
- “Are you back with him? Okay, but this is really the last time, you know.”
- “You have spinach in your teeth. Get it out right now.”
- “Your hair looks terrible today, do you want me to fix it?”
- “Do you really want that second glass of wine? …Well, I’ll pour myself another too.”
- “You’d better those post a photo, your eye looks weird in the other one.”
- “That girlfriend of yours? Mwah, I don’t fully trust her.”
- “I love you, even if you act like a drama queen.”
- “If you go, I’ll go too.” (always, wherever)
- “I’m proud of you – even if I don’t say it often.”
The power of the bond with your sister
Whether you talk to her daily or sometimes have weeks without contact: the bond with your sister is always there. And that makes being a sister so special. So send her a sweet message today (or a meme that only you understand) – because such a bond should be cherished.
