A little extra for men and women

Having sex is healthy. This applies to both sex with yourself and with another person. It is good for your immunity and helps you cope better with stress. Moreover, you train your muscles. Additionally, sex is also a fun activity that brings you closer together when done together. Do you want to give your sex life a boost? Take advantage of our tips.

Sensual role plays

You are open to a sensual role play, but how do you start? Discuss a scenario with each other. Will you be a knight and a princess or a photographer and a model? Come up with your own storyline. A nice introduction is when you send each other messages in your roles via WhatsApp. This way, you are already warmed up for the real work. Initially, a role play may feel awkward or you might laugh occasionally. The more you do it, the easier it becomes. Step over a threshold and discover if there is an actor or actress in you. Making love in different places can also be part of the role play. Step into the shower and suddenly the plumber shows up, or come up with a fun story yourself. You may also find out that role plays are not for you, and then you can try something else.

BDSM: unknown makes unloved

There is often a bit of laughter when it comes to BDSM. BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. These are different sexual experiences that often involve restraint and stimuli, such as pain or cold and warmth. Often, a dominant partner performs actions and a submissive partner receives pain stimuli. It all happens with consent and can also exist in a mild form. Even light bondage with a scarf and a blindfold can be very exciting. The film ’50 shades of grey’ has contributed to a more positive image of BDSM, but many people are still hesitant to experiment with it, even though it can give your sex life a boost.

Get to know the vibrator

Most people are familiar with vibrators for women. It is nice to use these as a single or to experiment with your partner. These devices are meant to stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris. Now also get to know the male vibrator. This vibrator helps you explore your male G-spot and makes your sexual experience more intense. With a prostate stimulator you stimulate the prostate. This way, you reach new heights of physical pleasure.

Discover and guard your boundaries

Sex is enjoyable and healthy, but the need for sex can vary. What one finds exciting, the other may find completely unappealing. Go on a discovery journey alone or together. Discuss with your potential partner where your needs lie. A good sex life is about quality, not quantity. Enjoyment comes first.