Love & Sex

Which sex position makes it difficult for men to orgasm?

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Not every sex position is the same: what might feel better for you as a woman might be a bit meh for him. Which position makes it difficult for men to reach orgasm?

That varies from man to man, of course. Every body is different, and that makes each couple unique. What gives you fireworks in the bedroom might do very little for someone else. You never know. Still, there are some guidelines to follow.

Some men may find it harder to reach orgasm in certain positions due to the level of stimulation and excitement they experience. This can vary depending on factors such as the angle, depth, and intensity of penetration, as well as the amount of friction and stimulation of the penis. Particularly, standing penetration can be tricky for many men: having sex while standing is complicated. It is exciting, indeed, but not very easy to reach a climax that way. Especially the position where you both look at each other while having sex standing is not exactly his favorite. On average, that is. You never know if you are an exception to the rule.

There are more positions that are not favorites: lying sideways and spooning, for example. Because: where do you put that arm? And it’s also not as popular when you ride on his face. Many men find it complicated to, well, breathe. Well, now you know that too. You can all keep that in mind when you end up in a split in bed together again. Enjoy it, okay? Feel that click. That is always the most important thing for both parties, in whatever position.