These are the very best sex positions to both reach climax

Perhaps it is the goal of a good sexual encounter: to achieve an orgasm. Or well, of course, there is also the search for intimacy, deeper feelings, and connection. But let's put that aside for a moment. You just want a good, old-fashioned orgasm. And preferably at the same time as your lover. Because yes, it really isn't fun if you are done after three of those things, but your partner is still not close. Fortunately for you, you can learn this. Go see the stars together with these best sex positions to reach the finish line together:

Reverse cowgirl

Secretly, we all want to be a cowgirl sometimes, right? Not necessarily on a farm where you actually have to feed cows and shovel manure, but in bed. Riding is the absolute best – at least if you ask many women. Because this is one of those positions that both of you can really enjoy. As a woman, you often need some clitoral stimulation to truly reach your peak. Penetration is very nice, but without some fiddling, there is no fun. The penetrating partner lies underneath, while the other turns around and slides in from above. Lie a bit sideways and move freely. This is really great for both parties: the penetration is for one the best, and for the other, that sideways sliding is the best. This way, you have the best of both worlds and will have fun together with the right timing.

Position 69

This may not be the most athletic position, but you can be sure that neither of you can walk for a while. One person lies down while the other crawls on top. The person on top turns around and you start to pleasure each other with your mouths. For achieving an orgasm together, this is really ideal: you are right at each other's most sensitive zones and can create a rhythm. Start slowly, playfully, and build it up until you are both going faster and faster. This way, you will almost always finish at the same time.

Doggystyle with some stimulation

It's no secret that men find doggystyle one of the best positions. It gives them control over the rhythm and how deep they can go. That is very exciting for them. You can make this even better as a man, or penetrating partner, for the other by playing with your hands. Touch the breasts, stroke over the hips, and especially: play with the clitoris. Once you hit that G-spot, that woman will definitely reach that level in combination with penetration. And that backside? It can move as fast as it wants with hands and hip movements, so reaching that level together is a piece of cake.

Flat on the stomach

You might not expect it, but when women lie on their stomachs, they feel everything more intensely. This means you get a much bigger orgasm much faster. Have you been at it for a while and want to end it with a fireworks-worthy finish? Then lie down on the bed. The other jumps on top and penetrates from behind. It feels like you are in another world. And of course, you can stimulate yourself.

Shoulder holder

The secret to coming quickly is very deep penetration and stimulating the clitoris. Yes, you know that by now. So yes... how are you going to achieve that? By the shoulder holder, of course. You lie on your back and throw your legs up. The penetrating person slides towards you on their knees and goes in like that. You place your legs on the shoulders of the other and slide even closer together. That depth and G-spot stimulation is definitely a recommendation.

On the stool

What really gets you here to come together quickly? Yes, I wondered that too, but it really is true. This is such a slow burn position that leads to an explosive release. The penetrating person sits on the bed or on a chair — a chair or harder surface is a bit more convenient. You sit on top and wrap your legs around the other. Because you are so close to each other, you create more intimacy. This is already exciting in itself, so it's not strange that you get warm from it. It also ensures that you are really deep and close to each other, so stimulating each other happens naturally. Because you are sitting like this, you can go up and down slowly and deeply, which makes you both go crazy until the pace picks up. Then comes the finale.

There you go. Now you have something to try on these cold evenings. Isn't that much more fun than watching a series together until the late hours? Have fun.