9 little things that definitely show he is not the one
He is not the one. But you just keep going in the situationship and well, leaving is such a hassle too. How do you know that it’s just not right, you know? A budding relationship can be complicated sometimes. Because you will inevitably reach that infamous crossroads. Will you continue together or will you turn right?
These are signals that you should probably cut off a situationship or pre-relationship. He is not the one for you.
1. Uncertainty about what he wants
If your lover doesn’t know whether he wants a serious relationship with you, you risk getting hurt. Clarity is important. Does he see a future or not? Is he hesitating even for a second? Better for you to be the one who leaves. Bye-bye.
2. You don’t have fun together
Do you laugh little? No inside jokes with each other? No pet names, no special words, no fun for nothing, jokes here and there? Then he might not be your forever soulmate.
3. Unresolved issues with exes
When his ex still plays a big role in his life, it can cause tensions and emotional complications.
4. You don’t feel happy with the other
Do you notice that you often feel stressed or unhappy after spending time with them? This can indicate a toxic relationship.
5. You prefer being alone
Says enough, right?
6. You prefer hanging out with friends than spending an evening with him
You might really be better off single…
7. You don’t have deep conversations
You never philosophize about life. You don’t have conversations deep into the night. It’s all so superficial.
8. You can’t be yourself
Do you feel like you constantly have to watch what you say or do? This is often a red flag. Run.
9. He acts weird in public
How someone treats, for example, service staff says a lot about their character. Rude behavior towards strangers can also be directed at you in the future.
Be honest with yourself. Are you settling for less? Can you still leave, or do you just think you’re stuck somewhere? Go. Live your own life and never settle for someone who gives you a ‘meh’ feeling. You can do it.
Image: Emily in Paris
