If he says this on a date, you need to quickly make your escape

Okay, dating is usually quite fun, you know. But sometimes… There are red flags. And then you need to make sure you get away. Especially if he says this, it’s watch out.

Oh dear, ouch, NO. During a date, certain statements can be red flags indicating unhealthy intentions or behavior. Here are some examples of get-out-while-you-can:

1. “My ex was really crazy.”

Speaking negatively about an ex-partner can indicate unresolved emotions or a lack of self-reflection. It may also mean that he is deflecting responsibility and might say the same about you in the future.

2. “I don’t want to put a label on it; let’s just have fun”

This may indicate that he is not looking for a serious relationship and is only interested in physical intimacy without commitments. If you are looking for something deeper, this could lead to disappointment.

3. “I don’t have a good relationship with my family; they don’t understand me.”

While family issues do occur, completely rejecting family can indicate deeper personal problems or an inability to maintain close relationships.

4. “My previous partners were always so jealous.”

This may mean that he exhibits behavior that provokes jealousy, such as flirting with others, and blames his ex-partners instead of evaluating his own behavior. Not good. Watch out.

5. “I love to be in control in a relationship.”

This may indicate dominant or even controlling tendencies, which can lead to an unequal and potentially unhealthy relationship. You don’t want that. Never.

6. “I don’t believe in monogamy; it’s not natural.”

If you are looking for a monogamous relationship, this could be a sign that you have fundamentally different expectations, which could lead to conflicts. Don’t settle for it too quickly. It will break your heart.