Why it's not a big deal that you had sex on your first date

Hello, it's the year 2025 here. Are we still going to slut-shame women who expose themselves on the first date slutshaming? Honey, please no! A little bit of casual sex is actually very good for a person. Maybe a relationship will come out of it, sometimes a good fling, and maybe nothing at all. LotteLust gives you 4 reasons why a hookup on the first date is brilliant.

1. Just testing
Why date three times first only to find out later that the other person is completely useless in bed? You should know what kind of meat your date has in the tub. You can take a test drive before making your decision.

2. Your biggest fantasy
Wild sex with a relatively unknown person is one of the biggest sexual fantasies of women. The tall, dark handsome stranger. Is it also your naughty dream? Why shouldn't you go for it? You only live once. Go for it, girl!

3. Unexplored attraction
You both noticed it from the moment you introduced yourselves. The sexual tension hanging between you is palpable. And everyone knows that too much tension is bad for your physical and mental health, so you have to release that tension somehow. How, you want to know? What better way than through a round of sex? Check here the signs that your date also just wants sex.

4. Long drought
You have absolutely no click, your date is boring or actually not interested in commitment. In short: it's not going to happen between you. However, the sexual tension is a ten and you haven't had good sex in a while, and your date is also interested in you. Then skip the dessert and enjoy it at home. And then? Just read what the do's and don'ts for a one-night stand Let out a little scream, eat another Zeeuwse bolus, shake your hips, the moment we have all been hoping for is finally here.

We are also not for anti-slutshaming, so just do what feels good for you. Happy dating!