I once found a novel (well let’s say it was blank sheets of paper filled with letter) by a female novelist in my husband’s office. The inscription said: “ You can always meet me. If not for real than through the pages of this book…” I honestly don’t know if this was meant for my husband or the male colleague he shared his office with but either way I found it inappropriate, both of them having wonderful wives. Me being one of them.
We all hit this bump eventually and I must admit I have a built-in radar alert when it comes to intruders. Someone once left a sweet handwritten message on my husband’s desk. “Who’s it from?”, I asked a little hysterically. Well it was from a former fifty year old lesbian colleague. Okay … From that moment on I balanced out my jealous feelings and besides I’ve been with my love for such a long time those bitches don’t have a fighting chance. But I have accumulated some sound advise along the way which I will share with you.
1.
Be Nice
Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer is how the saying goes. If you’re on good terms with this flirty type it’s best to keep a close eye on her.
2.
No cooking bunny rabbits over an open fire, that’s way below you. And imagine your guy finding out, judging you and feeling sorry for her. That’s the same as chopping down your own tree. Be kind and polite, don’t greet her last as she’ll catch on you don’t like her and won’t feel as bad about going after your guy.
Show her where she stands.
3.
A friend of mine called her guy at work and ‘that type” (that pushy female colleague) answered his cellphone. The woman then informed her that her husband was off to fetch her some coffee and if she wouldn’t mind calling back in 10 (TEN) minutes. Well my girlfriend put that girl on the spot then and there, telling her where she stands and that it wasn’t necessary to her guy’s phone and certainly not when she was calling.
Kiss in public.
4.
Always a good option; show everyone you’re together by placing a sweet little kiss in his neck. Make sure it doesn’t get too icky making you more like the weak and dependent party, one that has trouble keeping a man. Just
I once found a novel (well let’s say it was blank sheets of paper filled with letter) by a female novelist in my husband’s office. The inscription said: “ You can always meet me. If not for real than through the pages of this book…” I honestly don’t know if this was meant for my husband or the male colleague he shared his office with but either way I found it inappropriate, both of them having wonderful wives. Me being one of them.
We all hit this bump eventually and I must admit I have a built-in radar alert when it comes to intruders. Someone once left.
Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer is how the saying goes. If you’re on good terms with this flirty type it’s best to keep a close eye on her.
No cooking bunny rabbits over an open fire, that’s way below you. And imagine your guy finding out, judging you and feeling sorry for her. That’s the same as chopping down your own tree. Be kind and polite, don’t greet her last as she’ll catch on you don’t like her and won’t feel as bad about going after your guy.
2.
No cooking bunny rabbits over an open fire, that’s way below you. And imagine your guy finding out, judging you and feeling sorry for her. That’s the same as chopping down your own tree. Be kind and polite, don’t greet her last as she’ll catch on you don’t like her and won’t feel as bad about going after your guy.
Show her where she stands.
3.
A friend of mine called her guy at work and ‘that type” (that pushy female colleague) answered his cellphone. The woman then informed her that her husband was off to fetch her some coffee and if she wouldn’t mind calling back in 10 (TEN) minutes. Well my girlfriend put that girl on the spot then and there, telling her where she stands and that it wasn’t necessary to her guy’s phone and certainly not when she was calling.
Kiss in public.
4.
Always a good option; show everyone you’re together by placing a sweet little kiss in his neck. Make sure it doesn’t get too icky making you more like the weak and dependent party, one that has trouble keeping a man. Just
