Sexy Friday
FAKING IS SO 90s. THIS IS HOW YOU GET A BIG O IN NO TIME.
by LotteLust
Dear readers. Of course, we write about men and sex. But there are people who know, well, just a bit more about it and, well, write about it just a bit easier. That's why we are rolling out the red carpet for our friends from LotteLust every week., a website that is all about intimacy. Among other things about this week's topic: orgasms. If you don't like doing it, at least it's great to talk about. LotteLust, take it away.
Sex, yes fun, but let's be honest. We don't have all the time. We still need to do Sinterkerst shopping, hang the laundry, send ten emails, and take a beauty nap of preferably more than 8 hours (plus all those other things you secretly think about during sex).
Not only that, many women struggle with climaxes. Most of us take over 30 minutes to reach the ‘Big O’ (unless solo, because: self-knowledge). Sometimes even more or some women come home from a cold fair. No ‘Big O’, but a Big D of Disappointment.
I hear you thinking... Indeed, an orgasm is not a ‘must’ for good lovemaking... But admit it: it remains the cherry on the cake, the milk foam on your cappuccino, and the olive in the martini.
Le petit mort is not only nice, it's also healthy and you'll fall asleep faster because of it. So use some extra tricks to reach your peak faster.
For you
Warm feet
This doesn't really belong on Amayzine, but it works like a charm... Put on warm socks in bed. YUCK! We said it! Deliciously wrong, but there is indeed research that proves that women with warm feet more easily reach an orgasm. So grab those ski socks from the closet.
Fake it till you make it
Okay, faking is wrong. I want to emphasize that again. But you can trick your mind a bit by faking your moans. This will naturally make you more and more aroused.
“Combine all the tricks and you have a happy ending!”
Breathe in... breathe out
Moaning is not the only trick to get yourself worked up. Also think about your breathing. It plays an important role in relaxation and arousal. Start by breathing in and out slowly. This will relieve stress and tension and allow you to enjoy better. BUT sexy time is not relaxing yoga, so you will also speed up your breathing again. Just like you naturally do when you're close to your happy ending. Breathe short and deep. This will automatically make you more aroused and sensitive.
Use your imagination
Do you have an incredible weakness for firefighters, Jan Kooijman, or (fill in yourself), then you're in luck. A good dose of (sexual) fantasy will make your heart race and that well-deserved orgasm will come closer. There's nothing wrong with using fantasy to speed up your climax. Everyone does it.
Tense and relax
Tense your vajayjay, pelvis, buttocks, and thighs. And then relax them again. Repeat this continuously in a rhythm that you like. With this trick, you are mimicking what happens in your vagina during the Big O. Your lover feels more too, so it's a win-win!
Combine all the tricks and you have a happy ending!
Want to take it a step further? Check out LotteLust how to achieve a multiple orgasm in 5 steps. Fireworks guaranteed!
