Sexy Friday

LADIES, STOP LOOKING FOR YOUR G-SPOT…

It might be the biggest sex mystery: the pleasure button known as the Gräfenberg spot (a.k.a. G-spot), named after the German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. No one knows exactly where it is, but porn stars? They always seem to find it strange enough to come four times in a row. Quite typical.

The magical spot that could allow every woman to orgasm vaginally (not clitorally) during sex, is perhaps the best way to describe the G-spot. Countless studies have been conducted, books have been written about it, and there has been a lot of struggling and searching, but researchers now seem to finally agree: a real ‘spot’ that could lead to a more intense and satisfying orgasm for women does not exist.

‘But this, folks, is the reason for our peak moment, not that G-spot’

Instead, it is now suggested that there is another key to vaginal orgasms. Call it a kind of ‘collaboration’ between the clitoris, urethra, and the front wall of your vagina. In certain areas, these sensitive spots also share blood supply and nerves, which is precisely what creates that fireworks. It has a rather complicated name (clitourethrovaginal, or VUG complex), but this, folks, is the reason for our peak moment, not that G-spot.

In short: we can all stop looking for that G-spot. Seems clear to me. Now to figure out where the hell that VUG complex is. Sex, it can sometimes be complicated.