Fun & Famous
THE ARTIST ENTRANCE (A.K.A. ANAL SEX)
And why everyone is talking about it
by LotteLust
Dear readers. Of course we write about men and sex. But there are people who know a bit more about it and write about it a bit more easily. That's why we will roll out the red carpet every week for our friends from LotteLust, a website that covers everything related to intimacy. Among other things, about this week's topic: anal sex. If you don't like doing it, at least it's great to talk about it. LotteLust, take it away.
Have you ever let a man go backstage? A.k.a. taken the back door? A.k.a. in a Greek way? A.k.a. fill in yourself? It remains a bit of a thing for many women. To do it AND to talk about it. The image of butt sex is often that men always want it and women always reject it. Yet anal is:
1) …the topic that always comes up after midnight and after four dry whites.
2) …the most searched topic in the field of sex.
3) …also becoming increasingly popular over the years. Forty percent of women between 20 and 24 have done it at least once. While in the early 90s it was only sixteen percent.
We all know by now that backdoor loving is a hot topic. That it's nice and sexy for men is understood by everyone. But what exactly is the benefit for women? LotteLust explains why it can also be such an intense pleasure for you...
Naughty
Butt sex is extra fun to do because it's so naughty. It's something different. Something cheeky, something that actually isn't allowed. Your dirty little secret. Something that is kinky and new is always extra exciting.
Narrow & wow
As a pro-anal (not to be confused with pro-ana), I've had many discussions with anti-anal friends. “But you don't have a clitoris in your butt, so why would that feel good?!” After laughing at her in my head, I told her the following. Your anus has a lot of sensitive nerve endings, which is why touching can feel so good. It remains, in principle, the neighbor of your vagina. Other women find the feeling of ‘being full’ very nice.
Pain = pleasure
A smart girl is well prepared. If you make the right preparations (toilet, liters of lubricant, excitement, foreplay), there is (almost) no pain involved. Yet those tiny bits of pain and that extra pressure are secretly extra nice. And not to forget exciting.
94% orgasm guarantee
Can you orgasm from butt sex? Research shows that women who did anal things were more likely to have a big O. Especially if it was the follow-up to other types of sex in one session, such as vaginal and oral. For 94% of the women in the study, it turned out to be the magic combo for a smashing happy ending.
For him
Sometimes I admit – don't let him hear – after three times of nagging for butt stuff. Not every time of course, because you have to stand behind the sexual adventures you embark on. An extra plus of this adventure is seeing him enjoy.
In short: as Samantha in Sex and the City once beautifully said: “With the right guy and the right lubricant… it’s fabulous.”
Intrigued and want to know how it all works? Then read further on LotteLust.nl step by step all beginner tips. How to prepare, what the best positions are, and how to achieve an orgasm. We tell you everything.
