Happy & Healthy
13X WHAT WE FIND UNATTRACTIVE ABOUT MEN
Okay okay, girlfriends. We now know what men find unattractive about us. But now we should also turn the tables, don't you think? The people around me sometimes call me a bit too picky. Sorry not sorry. There are just those things that I completely lose interest in. And you have those too, let's be honest. And since honesty still lasts the longest, this can just be put on the table. Do you have a subscription to Tinder or The Inner Circle? Then there are probably quite a few men who have been blocked after they said they were looking for a beautiful lady in case their girlfriend is out of town. And that selfie with a bare torso in the bathroom mirror (with a sultry look), that makes you want to spit too. Yes, even among the male gender, there are things we prefer not to see or hear. You get it, I have gathered these turn-offs together.
1. Short-sleeved shirts
Leave that to your father. Usually in combination with a nice red-green checkered pattern. Oof. Better not, buddy, NOT even if it's thirty degrees and you're sweating your balls out of your pants.
2. Unkempt nails
And then with such a dirty black edge. Brrr. No, Mr. Perfect doesn't have to go to the pedicure before taking me out to dinner, but preferably we fold our hands in a well-groomed pair of his.
3. Wrong size
I'm talking about tight pants, shorts that are too short, a tight shirt where the nipples are popping out, or a T-shirt that the Spice Girls would be proud of. If you can't wash your clothes yourself, take them to your mom.
4. Men who talk too much about themselves
And don't want to know anything about you. Do you know them? Oh, so proud of their promotion, with that new flashy Audi and that expensive vacation to Dubai. Hey Mr. Show-off, if we're going to start like this; the bill please and see you never again.
5. If he still lives at home
‘So nice, when I come home, dinner is ready.’ Uhm, what do you mean? Does your girlfriend know you're here? ‘Oh no, I still live at home.’ Ouch, then you must be home before dark. Bye then!
“At least, for me that’s a dealbreaker.”
6. WTF are you doing with that phone?
That he is on his phone non-stop during your date. Dude, I don't care if you need to be reachable. Who are you here for? For me or for yourself?
7. No humor or worse: not understanding your humor
Is. thus. the. most. important. If he doesn't understand your humor during your first date, it's probably a no-go. At least, for me that’s a dealbreaker. How are you ever going to survive your arguments if he can't laugh at your jokes? Not going to happen, right...
8. Women’s drink
That sweet white wine, huh, that I mentioned? That's definitely a no-go if the man orders it. And a Kriekje? Better not... Preferably a heavy special beer or just share a bottle of intense, red wine that you know will give you a headache. We want a man, ladies. A man.
9. Ordering too healthy
And then involving you in it. A salad for you too? What do you mean by that, Mr. Meddler?
10. Insecure men
Going on a date while biting your nails? A foot that just won't stop fidgeting? Hmmm, no.
11. Too groomed men
A pair of shaved calves or that chest. I wanna see hair, darling. Give me a beard and a good head of hair that I can run my hands through. I find that fiercely attractive, you remember?
12. The bill
Okay okay, cliché but still. He must at least offer to pay the bill. That you then want to split it or pay for yourself: okay, but secretly we still want him to pay for you in an old-fashioned way.
13. Friends
If he discusses EVERYTHING, but I mean EVERYTHING with his buddies. Friends are super important. But if you want to share your story with the whole outside world, then you can post it on your Facebook. Not. Done.
