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Sexy Friday

4 INSECURITIES OF
MEN IN BED

by LotteLust

You're not the only one worried about your body in bed. Men come across as so confident, but they have their own hang-ups too. What are they? LotteLust reveals:

1. His penis

What he has in the pants is the most important thing for his bed performance. Did you know that research has shown that all (okay, almost all) men are insecure about the length of their little friend? From young to old. Big to small. From cocktail sausage to serrano ham. Many men still believe that a big penis results in more “ohhhs,” “ahhhhs,” and “oehhhhs” from a woman. And honestly, size DOES matter, but does he also have the moves?

If you want to know the best moves for a more... um... full feeling: read it here.

2. His timing

Has your (ex-)lover ever had a Minute Man moment? Then you recognize that sad guilty, embarrassed face when he finishes too soon. Too bad, but it happens. Next time better. Correct me if I’m wrong, but most women don’t see it as a disaster. For men, it’s a big deal, you know. You’re not a real man with a capital M if you can’t satisfy your sweetheart for at least dozens of minutes – no – hours. Well dear men, we want to tell you: we don’t want to have sex for hours and hours.

Another fun fact (we're full of them): did you know that in some countries finishing too soon is seen as a compliment by women? So keep that in your pocket.

3. His hair

Too much or just too little, a little fur on their butt, too much pubic hair or nothing at all. Or a bald head. Men have a love-hate relationship with body hair just like we do.

4. His smell

I bet your fling/one night stand/lover/new love/long time friend or husband does a quick armpit check before every intimate moment. You know, a sneaky sniff-sniff under his armpits. If he’s not good to go, then a quick deodorant application happens.

That’s not the only body odor he might be insecure about. The smell down below is tricky business too. The odor of his ball sack must be in order, of course. Otherwise, he fears there won’t be any oral fun for him.