Love & Sex

According to men, this is the difference between ordinary and really good sex

If you think your skills in the bedroom are generally ‘fine’, pay attention. Because ‘fine’ is not ‘wow-ohmygod-whatamidoingnow’.

Because according to men, there is indeed a difference between a really spectacular fireworks-galore sex and a mwah, medium, so-so, just a little bump.

According to men, real five-star sex is primarily a sexual encounter where enough attention is paid to, uh, his thing. Well. That can involve some foreplay. Don't just lie on top of each other and randomly bang, no, a little fiddling and shuffling is allowed. Or a bit of oral work, sure. Think. About. The. Little guy. Preferably, says the man. Of course, the tension can be built up afterwards. It can get a little looser during the act itself and when it really matters and he’s about to see stars, then it can't be wild enough. Scratching his back, squeezing his butt, yelling in his ear: go for it. Let all those brakes loose. Act as if you are in a movie . Change poses enthusiastically a few times. He will be grateful for it afterwards.

However, the man states: don't think too much about it. Good sex happens naturally. And that is not performing a set routine. As in: just go through these 3 positions and then groan ‘oh’ and ‘ah’, so he can wrap it up too. No. Be yourself and don't be ashamed of anything. A woman with passion and a tiger who doesn't hesitate is sexy.

Do you find this a bit too scary to do? A good setting also does the trick, according to experts. Pull some red lingerie out of the closet and move together to a hotel room with a hot tub, then you really don't have to do much more. There's a good chance he has already forgotten about the foreplay as soon as you take off your bathrobe. Ah, that's one thing in life that is certain: quickies never go out of style.

FACTS

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  • Singles who have an exclamation mark in their online profile have a 10 percent higher chance of a successful date.
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