Love & Sex

Follow these 6 points and he will never want to get rid of you

Love according to science; when science says it, it must be true. Still haven't managed to find a love? There seem to be 6 ways to ensure that someone falls head over heels in love with you. By the way, being in love is also very good for your health, read our suggestions here)? I'm meanwhile scrolling through the first of the Monate like an addict through Elkes Nieuwsflix, but nothing, zip, nada. Even Netflix is acting suspicious... Quiet then. I want a sequel to my favorite and I want it now. But with a chronic shortage and the absence of rattling conversations, but. So, met Prince Charming and want to make sure you become his muse? According to science, here's how you do it:

1. Flirt with your eyes

Eye contact, don't underestimate it, okay? In 1989, a study was conducted showing that participants who had two minutes of intense eye contact without looking away developed increased feelings for each other, even though they were strangers. Speaking of flirting: here the 6 situations where that is totally inappropriate.

2. Play hard to get

Actually, we really don't have the time or desire to play games with each other, but it turns out the ‘hard to get’ technique works according to Robert Cialdini, who once invented the ‘scarcity principle’. What that means is that anything that is rare, unique, or limited (in this case, contact) is something people desire.

3. Ask the 36 questions

’36 questions’ was once made famous by the essay Modern Love by Mandy Len Catron from the New York Times. She based them on a study by Arthur Aron from 1967 about interpersonal contact, where her outcome was 36 questions that can apparently make two complete strangers fall madly in love with each other.

4. Don't live too far apart

Sounds pretty logical. Long-distance relationships are just tough, no matter how crazy you are about your partner. At least, not during your honeymoon period; distance works better when you're already in love, they say.

5. Be connected by an adrenaline rush

I would say: just read this. Absolutely great for your relationship.

6. Shared interests

It is said that the whole ‘opposites attract’ thing is more of a romantic notion, but you tend to fall in love faster when you have many shared hobbies and interests, claims Dr. Aaron Ben-Zeév, author of the book ‘In the Name of Love’. Ultimately, it has to do with your comfort zone and that you feel more at ease when there are points of recognition with someone. Think of the same kind of upbringing, but also having the same opinion when it comes to politics, etc.

So single ladies, you know what you need to do...

Source: Hello Giggles