Non-sexual things that men find sexy about women
To seduce a man, you don't have to go for nudity at all. Or think that everything revolves around down under.
Because a guy finds very different things – that are not sexual at all – actually super sexy. Sure, wearing some nice lingerie always helps if you're looking for a lustful glance in the bedroom. But passion between the sheets doesn't just depend on your breasts or how you've groomed your bikini line. Believe us.
What men find incredibly sexy – without it being about being completely naked, wild fantasies and lying in twisted positions in bed? We share our seven findings.
A hearty laugh.
Yes, a genuine belly laugh, laughing so hard that you both end up bent over in bed: it's charming. Although you might only be thinking about your red face... you're hot. Literally and figuratively.
A bare shoulder.
Preferably a bit subtle and accidental, you know. Yes, yes: it's the little things that create spectacle...
The way you walk.
It's not about your sensual model walk where you sway your hips from side to side, no. It's about how you enter a room – confidently and radiantly, or rather reserved and shy? He loves to see how you can be yourself somewhere and how you present yourself to the unknown outside world.
Having passion.
Whether it's for baking cookies or wanting to start your own business: a man loves a woman with a mission. Having a goal that you work hard for is incredibly attractive.
Playing with your hair.
So simple, so much result. He immediately wants to touch it too. And more.
Your social life.
Look, if you're a bit of a busy woman who often engages in cozy activities with her friends, he finds it extra nice if you have a day completely free for him. The more you're busy with social business, the more he likes you. After all: you're a beloved person and he sees that happening. Of course, you need to feel when you should make time for him, because never being able to meet is also quite boring.
Generosity.
Don't let him pay for yet another dinner. Just go to ‘the bathroom’ at the end of the evening and then say at the table with a big smile: “Shall we go?”. To which you can then mention that the bill has already been taken care of. You might buy one less pair of pants – but you've snagged a nice man in no time. Choose your battles, girls.
All nice and good – but there are also a lot of things that make him spontaneously lose his erection. Read and learn.
FACTS
– On average, we have sex 103 times a year: Dutch people would do it an average of 9.6 times a month.
– Of all Europeans, Greeks have sex the most often.
– Icelanders start the earliest: around their 15th they experience their ‘first time’ on average.
Source: Daily Newspaper
Written by: Tessa Heinhuis
