Sex lessons from Goedele
Put that date in your calendar
Goodle Liekens, the television sexologist from our southern neighbors, who doesn't know her? And tonight you're going to roll with her again, because she has a new program on RTL5. In ‘Goodle On Top’ she dives into a sex laboratory and travels with couples to Bonaire for practical tips on sex. But for now, she's giving a sex lesson on Amayzine.
Goodle, your program, how important is it that it's on TV?
“Particularly important. If the sex is good, then you're happier. I mean, how many cooking shows are there on TV? Is cooking that important? Sexuality and a relationship is one, sex is a kind of glue to bond you together.”
What shouldn't we believe about sex?
“That you should break up immediately if the sex isn't good. There are also people who are happy together without sex. It also has everything to do with the life stage you're in. Just think of parents with young children, for those dads and moms it sometimes has less priority.”
And the problem of a dull sex life?
“That you have no desire. Because the potatoes need peeling, the kids need to go to a sports lesson, you still need to check your emails... You really have to make time for sex. A man is more visual and therefore gets stimulated faster, but a woman needs to focus.”
“I'm all for scheduled sex”
If you could give three tips to spice up your sex life, what would they be?
that then?
“First: have scheduled sex. I'm all for scheduled sex, it's one long foreplay. You shave your legs, put on something nice, it actually feels like a date. And don't think that this excludes spontaneous sex right away. After that, learn to read each other without explanation. No one wants a police officer in the bedroom shouting: up, harder, softer. Breathing is receiving. So practice by listening to your partner. Finally: vary. It really doesn't have to be in positions; if that one is good, then enjoy it. But vary in time and location. And try something new, climb a wall together instead of that eternal dinner on date night.”
And if he wants it and you don't, should you give in?
“If he likes Chinese food and you Italian, then you occasionally adapt. And it shouldn't be that you always eat Chinese and it's always the same one who gives in.”
Okay, the sex lesson for now. I've already arranged a date with Goodle to extract everything from her about the orgasm. Do you want to know more right away? So watch ‘Goodle On Top’ or just sign up for the next series where Goodle goes ‘on top’.
