This is how to win over that man on vacation
I still have nada planned for summer vacation. For years I've been saying that I'm going to visit some friends in L.A. (this is why you should definitely go there), then I want to go back to the South of France or on a yacht week along the coast of Croatia, but every time nothing comes of it and I just stay in Amsterdam during the summer months. Not that it's bad because there's plenty of fun things to do here, but still, traveling is nice, especially if a potential summer fling comes along.
Speaking of summer flings; it has been proven that you fall in love faster abroad. As in: when you are on vacation abroad. You are in a completely different setting and precisely because you are ‘free’, you are also the best version of yourself. Our friends from Lexa.nl know this better than anyone else and so they have launched something today to help you find that foreign love: an online Borderless Dating guide.
Dating tips to score your Spanish, Italian, French, German, English, and also just Dutch date. Now it’s always handy to be able to get by a bit with the language of the country you are in – I have the very best tip for this – but it’s also always handy to know what it is that men abroad find nice and attractive.
Here are a few tips after extensive research by Lexa:
The Spaniard
Spaniards are real life enjoyers who love food and music, but they also place a lot of value on status symbols like clothing and cars. He will take you out to do fun things with his friends, but only after he has met the one true love, will he introduce you to his family. According to Lexa, Spaniards are also among the most confident men in Europe, but if you’ve hooked a Spanish man and after a few months he still hasn’t said ’te quiero’, well, then I’m afraid you won’t meet his family either.
Fun facts: he loves to make love on the beach, but he hates it when you are more busy with your phone and taking selfies than giving him attention.
De Italiaan
Oh, the Italians are suckers for love. If you’ve found an Italian lover, you are guaranteed to hear your own name frequently. And especially in bed. Two things that make him happy: sex and pasta (hello then, how’s that for a winning combination). But be careful, because he is also sensitive, so if you break his heart, you’ll find him locked in his room with a break-up song playlist.
Fun facts: stop by while he’s working; Italian men find sex in the workplace quite sexy. But what he really dislikes is if you spend too long in front of the mirror getting ready. He likes it au natural, baby.
The Frenchman
Oh la la, I once dated a Frenchman and it did not disappoint. They have an irresistible accent and if he feels a click with you? Then he will introduce you to his friends as soon as possible, because he values their opinion highly.
Fun facts: in the mood for an exciting sex session? He prefers to do it in a car or on a boat. What he intensely dislikes? If you go fishing for his past. So live in the now with your French boy.
The German
Are you looking for the one instead of a summer fling? Great, then you just need to cross the border. Germans are actually looking for Mrs. Right instead of Mrs. Right Now. However, he does believe that one of the two should be the real breadwinner (too bad).
Fun facts: they don’t find sex the most important thing in a relationship, they find cuddling very nice. Have you fallen in love? Make sure his friends like you too. If not, he will ditch you as soon as possible because what his friends think is sacred.
The Englishman
Ah look, men who are not so much interested in status and expensive things. What they are exactly looking for in a woman, they don’t really know yet, but hey, that’s what you’re for, right? Time for you to sweep him off his feet instead of the other way around.
Fun facts: unlike the Spaniards who want to roll around with you as much as possible, the Englishman is happy with once every two days. If you go out to dinner together and you think it would be nice to decide what you both will eat; don’t do it! Mr. finds it terrible if you order his food.
The Dutchman
Hey hey, just found a holiday love in your own country? Jan, Piet, or Klaas thinks of himself as romantic, sexy, and is not afraid to let you know how he feels about you. Direct, right? We are used to that.
Fun facts: or rather shocking, because of all Europeans, the Dutchman believes the least in true love. May I say that this breaks my heart a little? But hey, if you’re looking for a fling, that’s fine, because Mr. is definitely up for sex with you every day.
Well ladies, summer has officially started. Go for it!
Source: Lexa.nl
Image source: Sincerely Jules
