Love & Sex

AT THESE 7 PLACES
THE MAN CHEATS

I once had one who nicely went abroad to fool around with someone else. Something like ‘what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas’, only he wasn’t in Vegas; this Sherlock Holmes just found out. Nowadays, it’s even normal when you hear that a couple has split up to immediately ask: who cheated? Quite sad, isn’t it, that this is the very first thing people think of when it comes to assigning blame.

A few years ago, all hell broke loose when an online dating website for married men, or at least for men with a partner, was hacked. It was called Ashley Madison, maybe it rings a bell. But anyway, it became clear that the number of men who cheat is bizarrely high. Well, good for all the divorce lawyers, they must have never been this busy.

These seem to be the most popular places to cheat according to the people who catch the cheaters:

1. The bar

Because: alcohol and fun.

2. At work

A classic case of an office affair. 40% of male cheaters find a loverat the workplace because people spend most of their time there. Business trips, an office party, or the late hours to finish work are often the ideal moments for those who are susceptible to cheating.

3. A bachelor party

It turns out that in America, one in three grooms cheats during his bachelor party to enjoy one last day of his ‘freedom’.

4. A wedding

Don’t ask me how, because I assume that if you’re invited to a wedding, you bring your partner as a +1. But for all the men who go solo, this also turns out to be a playground for cheating.

5. The gym

Tight clothing, sweat, and well, sex is also a workout, right?

6. Via social media

It’s so incredibly easy to meet other people nowadays. You just need to download an app and you have plenty of choices. Instagram, Tinder, Facebook; you name it, people cheat through it.

7. Actually everywhere he has a good time

I just mentioned it: that old flame of mine did it when he was on vacation with his buddies. By the way, they apparently found it completely normal, because no one stood up for me.. Well, if you call that friendship, then I must be doing something wrong. But anyways, it can also happen at a festival or concert; anywhere he has a good time can lead to him having no brakes and thus cheating more easily.

Don’t forget: we women are not all saints either, as there are sources that report we indulge outside the home much more often than the male gender does…

Source: YourTango