THIS IS HOW YOU GET YOURS DURING SEX
Hetero women, something is wrong. Yes, there is a real orgasm gap between heterosexual men and women and homosexual men and women. This was shown by research research among no less than 50,000 people in a relationship. 95% of heterosexual men always come versus 65% of heterosexual women. For lesbians, it's 86% and for gay men, it's 89%. The facts don't lie: the ladies who love men are coming up short. What the heck do we do now?
A Big O with every thrust is not a ‘must’, but admit it: you'd rather have it than not. ‘How then?‘ is the key question. LotteLust tells you.
Moan, baby, moan
Not only does your bed buddy get heated from this, but you also take yourself to new heights. Moan louder than you normally would, under the guise of fake it till you make it. Follow the rhythm and focus on the feeling.
Dirty talk
Talking during sex is secretly quite scary. How do you make it not awkward and still ensure that you can convey that he needs to find another sweet spot for a moment? Exactly! Dirty talk is the way to go. Practice your sultriest voice and read this little article in preparation.
Lend a hand
It's a bit complicated for the guys down there too. Eights, the ABC, or just spinning around? He won't know after a while either, you know. Help him along by demonstrating what you like or take his hand and make the moves together.
More oral
Women who receive oral sex more often have more climaxes. Logical, because few women can climax during penetrative sex. Take your time for nice long foreplay and especially make the most of it.
Toy
If all else fails… Well, using a toy between the sheets is often a fun addition. An extra (vibrating) friend between your legs is certainly not a luxury and can help you reach the Big O-zone much easier.
Geen stress
It's not working, it's not working. Arghhh. Do you also fall under the 80 percent of women who sometimes struggle to achieve a Big O? Then you know that frustrating feeling where you'd rather just give up. Faking is a no-go (read why). Make sure you stay relaxed, stressing has the opposite effect. What helps best are these breathing tips.
Evaluate
Filling out an evaluation form? Nah, that's not necessary either. If you find yourself often left unsatisfied by your regular lover, then it's time for The Talk. The most important thing: make sure you don't come across as complaining or hurtful. Keep it sincere, but be honest. Overload him with compliments about what he does great in bed, but also tell him what you would like a bit more from him.
Good luck!
