This is the difference between men who cheat and those who do not.

No woman ever expects it from her man, and yet 1 in 4 men does it. But what makes one man cheat on his partner while the other is loyal for life?

No man, relationship, or situation is the same, so it's difficult to determine what it is that drives men. cheating. But it is well known that it is simply in someone, and you can see that according to psychologists by the amount of attention he generally needs. Is he always busy with his phone? We really mean always – as if the thing is glued to his hand? That could mean he is quite attention-seeking. And those who are, also love some female attention. If someone looks at him with desire, sends him an exciting message... He is so in. Why? He derives his self-esteem from this. Therefore, it becomes addictive because as a person, you always want to feel good. If he is in the pub, he inevitably looks around faster at what is walking around than others. He needs a kind of confirmation. Is it insecurity? It could be. Perhaps unconsciously, because what he radiates is just completely look-at-me. But deep down, this is his way of liking himself and knowing that he has ‘succeeded in life.’.

Men who have nothing to do with cheating and peeing outside the pot draw their energy and positivity from very different things than from attention from others. They focus completely on their career, or they love traveling, sports, and compliments from their boss. They have a different focus. And they find joy in other things in life, which they often achieve themselves. Running that marathon lifts his spirits. They also know that happiness is not found on the other side; they know they can create happiness themselves, even in their current relationship. Of course, when love is over, they will end it, but they don't quickly jump into bed with someone else. for some adventure. voor wat avontuur.

So if your love is once again whining about wanting to work more, wanting to book that trip to Cambodia now, or really wanting to run that 18-kilometer round... Let him go. For your own good, okay?.

FACTS

• Dangerous age: 39. That's when people most often cheat.
• 77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheats.
• 6% of cheating men cheat on their partner on the first day they meet their new mistress.