Why he is coming and you are not

Dutch men finish twice as often as women. So, let's talk today about the unfairness between men and women after all this kind of misery that we also have to deal with monthly. 1 in 3 men also thinks that penetration is the only way for women to finish. Yikes boys, time to sign up for a sex lesson. For example, Goedele Liekens has indicated that nearly 1 in 3 women even considers leaving their partner due to a lack of orgasms. So, if you want to keep your girl, then it’s time to bring out your A game under the covers.

Together with Durex, Goedele conducted a sex survey which showed that there is still a much too high number of men who think that penetration is enough to ensure that their partner also finishes. But more than half of the women explain the opposite. If you want your girl to reach a climax, then it’s time for some manual or oral stimulation. But ladies, you are also on the naughty step, because a high percentage never takes the effort to indicate what they like. Sex is teamwork, let’s not forget that.” Men clearly still need some sexual education, but as long as women don’t indicate what they need, they will never learn. Communication and playful openness are key, because only then can you discover each other’s desires.”

Tips from Goedele:

– Foreplay, toys, stimulating gels… Take time for ‘outercourse’ before ‘intercourse’.

– Go watch erotic films with your boy (here are female-friendly porn tips) and reenact each other’s favorite scenes. ”Nothing is more enriching than learning about differences and similarities.” This way you learn faster from each other what you do and don’t like.

– And ladies: work on your concentration. 5 out of 10 women indicate that getting an orgasm is difficult for them because they are not fully present in their heads. Empty your mind and enjoy, that’s what you want.

#OrgasmsforAll then. That’s what Durex and Goedele are committed to. Goodbye orgasm inequality, hello sparks under the covers.

Happy humping!