WHY YOU SHOULD GO FOR THE GOOD GUY ONCE

It's actually quite ridiculous, because why the hell wouldn't you treat yourself to a good guy? But ugh, those bad boys, they’ve got a hold on you. They always know exactly when to text you. As if they have a built-in radar with ‘ooh, that Elke is in touch with someone else, let me reach out again to screw it all up.’ Yep, it’s happened a bit too often, and yep, every time I fall for it again. It’s miserable.

But the term ‘good guy’ is often associated with the word ‘boring’. Mistake number one, because if they are good, that absolutely does not mean they are boring. Dating them is actually fun, it’s healthy and an affirming experience. You know you deserve the best of the best, and that’s him.

So that good guy, that’s the one. You need to have him and never let him go.

1. He won’t play confusing mind games with you. He always replies to your texts. And clearly too.

2. Did you have a night of rolling around? He will definitely send you a nice text the next day. That bad boy won’t do that. He’ll probably text you once at half past one in the morning after having a few beers when he’s looking for someone to give him attention.

3. And since we’re talking about sex, oral sex to be more exact, it’s about give and take. If you put in some effort for him? Then you can expect it back from him too.

4. Suppose you stay over after such a wild night, it’s guaranteed that he’ll make you a nice breakfastand won’t try to get you out of his house as quickly as possible.

5. You also learn from a good guy how good a relationship can be and how you can be a better partner yourself.

6. If you’re in the mood for a ‘bad boy’ for an evening, you can easily arrange that with your good guy. Much better than trying to make a good guy out of a bad one.

7. You don’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not, he has already clearly indicated that he likes you.

8. You simply deserve it. Investing your time and feelings in someone who is genuinely worth it should be seen as a gift to yourself.

So what are we ladies going to do together now? Exactly. Delete all the numbers of those boys who are of no use to us. I call it good riddance.