Love & Sex

This is the absolute worst way of cheating

If your man has another, that hurts a lot and you might not even be able to look at him for a while. But one infidelity is not the same as another.

Because, as previous research shows, falling in love with someone else is even worse than cheating purely for lust and sex. 65 percent of women say they find it worse if their partner really likes another woman and that they find it less bad if their man shares a bed for one night with a girl who doesn't interest him at all. So a naughty message with a heart and a kiss and a ‘I'm thinking of you’ is something we really can't accept, but a night of wild sex after a party is completely fine.

Bizarre, but that's how it is. The fact that your love tells stories to another, that he has someone else in his head and that he finds another attractive, sweet, and fun... That breaks our hearts. That he finds someone else a super fun woman That he shares his secrets with her. That he thinks of her every day. That he gets happy when she calls. That he longs to see her again. That hurts. It's the worst way of cheating.

Let's summarize, we find the worst ways of cheating:

  • The absolute worst: being in love with someone else and having an affair with that person, where love is involved.
  • Sex isn't even necessary, but finding out that there are loving feelings... Ouch.
  • Having sex a few times with the same person, without too many feelings.
  • Having casual sex with someone else once.
  • Kissing someone else once.

And in what way discovering that he is cheating is the most unpleasant?

These two:

  1. Catching your partner with another in your own house and bed.
  2. Discovering that he has an STD.

Neither is particularly pleasant, no. Moreover, it turns out that most relationships fail due to emotional cheating and not physical cheating. But men find having sex with someone else worse than women do: only 46% of men find emotional cheating worse than physical contact. A clear difference, then, between men and women. But please don't try any of these variants yourself. Because regret always comes later. Too late, often.

Source: Marie Claire UK