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This is what you need to know if your friend looks at other women

That moment when I clicked through fourteen times on Instagram and ended up at a beautiful woman I've never heard of. A nice woman. With big breasts. A small swimsuit. Followed by my friend.

I find it quite annoying when I discover that he knows her again through someone else and is therefore dutifully looking at all her half-naked photos on the Valhalla network Instagram. Of course, we are happily together, it is just social media, but still. The very idea that he is looking at another woman on his phone: furious. Let alone that he would stare at her if she is sitting at the same terrace. Or if he rides past her through the city. Yet it turns out that every man, yes, every man, looks at other women than his girlfriend. It happens in every relationship, at every age it occurs and no location is safe from the eyes of a man.

And that's why everyone needs to know this:

  • It doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. Of course, he is not blind, he can see that Doutzen is a beautiful girl. And he can find someone else attractive, because that doesn't matter. Finding someone good-looking doesn't mean he would rather be in a relationship with that person.
  • If he is eyeing another woman in real life, whether it's for her ample bust or her prominent derrière: no panic. He will forget her just like that. For men, out of sight, out of mind applies.
  • He is not tired of you, no way. Occasionally seeing some other blonde locks fluttering in the wind just does him good. Without meaning. Then he actually appreciates the blonde locks he has sitting at home on the couch even more.
  • He also doesn't cheat faster if he looks at others. Never proven. You might as well have a flirt than a man who is more about actions.
    So, no worries if you see all those hotties sitting on Instagram or next to you on the terrace. Looking is just looking.

Source: Cosmopolitan